whoops

I forgot to do my Sunday journal and God comes first so I'll reply to my messages in a second

and if this is typed weird it's cause I just ate an entire pizza and I might explode 

ahem
Today I finally went to church after a month, we had a guest speaker cause our pastor is out of the country. The guest speaker wa an author and he talked all about relationships, so this will be a bit of a heart breaker at the end but if you are a Christian and in a relationship you should read it. I made notes so I shall go get them and then begin...


(So just saying again this is what he said, but hes quoting God practically so)
   On second thought I'm just gonna copy and paste what he said (plus my notes within his sermon in bold)
(and he is talking about dating as well as marriage)

I. The First Message about Male-Female Intimacy
"For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh."
Here he went on to say how the definition of being ONE was being ONE in all things. Then he spoke about the three things you two must come together as ONE in. 

II. What is one flesh?

• Physically
• Emotionally
• Spiritually 

Physically you must be in love with each others body. You can't really have a relationship without that.
Emotionally you two should really talk about your feelings often. You should put time aside to talk and pray together every single day. You should trust each other, and be open. 
Spiritually you two must pray together and talk about your spiritual journey. Your struggles, your accomplishments, your goals. You two must be Christian. The definition of a Christian is giving oneself to Christ to be saved, and to follow Jesus.

III. Which area is the Best Foundation for a Relationship?
1 in 19,000 marriages fail in those who pray together. Basically saying out of 19,000 husband and wife pairs that pray together often, only 1 of their marriages fail. The best foundation is spiritual. God should be the center of your relationship and marriage, always. 

IV. The secret to intimacy is spiritual bonding.
-Consistently placing God at the very center of your relationship and growing ever closer to Him as a couple. 

V. Benefits of Spiritual bonding
- It creates genuine intimacy
-It feeds physical and emotional intimacy 

VI. How to Spiritually bond
1. Each person must be a Christian ( a real one)
2. They each must be growing spiritually 
3. Share your spiritual lives (talk about it)
4. Pray together often (make lists for each other too)

And that was all his notes and a summary. Anyway, he also talked for a bit about things that should not be in a relationship:
if God isn't the center, you should break up
if you two don't have trust, you should break up
he went on for a while, long story short, the relationship he defined as "you should break up immediately" was the one I'm in. SO guess what I have to go and do? Yeah, break up. It's a long story though, note me if you're a creepy curious person I guess... :U 

so yeah that's gonna be kinda sad, but tell me about your relationship and if it involves all the things he noted or not! 

God bless you all thanks for reading I love you all!